Dealing with aggressive drivers

By DriveThruL Team6 min readDriving Tips
Dealing with aggressive drivers

Aggressive driving behaviour is unfortunately common. Understanding why it happens helps you respond appropriately.

Common triggers

  • Traffic congestion stress
  • Running late
  • Perceived slights or mistakes
  • Anonymity behind the wheel

How to respond

Don't engage

  • Avoid eye contact
  • Don't make gestures
  • Don't shout or respond to shouting
  • Keep windows up and doors locked

De-escalate

  • Let them pass. your safety isn't worth a confrontation
  • Increase distance between you
  • If followed, drive to a police station or busy public place
  • Call police if you feel threatened

Managing your own frustration

  • Leave extra time for journeys
  • Accept that traffic delays happen
  • Listen to calming music or podcasts
  • Remember that others' mistakes are usually unintentional
  • Focus on arriving safely, not on other drivers' behaviour
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About the author

DriveThruL Team

Written by the DriveThruL team of DVSA approved driving instructors based in East London, teaching learner drivers since 2008.

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